Maybe. Yes, you probably are where you are.
What happens when I get there?
I thought we had just established that you are here, not there.
What happens when I get here?
Well, what is happening right now?
Did I become what I wanted to be when I grew up?
No, probably not. That doesn’t happen very often.
Does that mean I am a failure?
If you-as-a-kid gets to judge you-as-an-adult, then yes.
But I like the paths I stumbled through, and I like where I ended up.
Hmmmm. Then maybe you should tell you-as-a-kid to fuck off.
Does that mean I was wrong and stupid then?
How do you know that you are not wrong and stupid now?
Maybe I am.
Yes, definitely.